Chapter 381; I have already bought everything!
"Thank you..." Su Wei Wei wasn’t bothered that they thought their relationship was perfect.
"Are all relationships like this?" He curiously inquired him, Huo Zheng and Huo Qi were boys Huo Shen had adopted when he had joined the military, at the age of ten, they had been with him all these years, and apart from hearing things from the outside, they didn’t know much.
The three of them brought each other up, they depended on each other and wondered if they were knowingly abandoned or if it was unknowingly done. The three of them had run out from the same orphanage and were kidnapped on the way, they were planning to traffick them off when Huo Shen had rescued them, they vowed to stick with him and protect him for a lifetime.
You could say, they didn’t experience anything like family love, they only know they were brought up in the orphanage and nothing much they knew about themselves. They never experienced what it was to have a father or mother... They had to bring themselves up, so, he wondered how relationships were and if they worked.
"Cheng Yi, I will be honest with you! Being in a relationship or being in a marriage requires commitment and sacrifices, as you see, we always argue and fight sometimes, it depends on how ready we are to admit our mistakes and respect each other...
If we have problems in the future, we don’t have to resort to fighting or experiencing domestic violence, we will call it quits, take time apart think through our actions, and see what wrong we did, not all women and men are as mature and open-minded as we are! Not all relationships are like ours, but if you two fall in love with each other, there’s nothing that could make you hurt someone you love, if it does get there, set that person free, if it’s your bird, it will come back, and if it ain’t yours, it won’t... And then, not everyone can be welcomed back!" Su Wei Wei knew what was in his mind.
Not all marriages were a bed of roses, she was married once, and this was her second time, she didn’t want to force feelings but cultivate and grow them as they stay together... The effort she puts into the relationship is the same as Huo Shen is putting or even more, a relationship is for two people and not one.
"Oohhh..." Cheng Yi hadn’t thought she was this mature but immediately understood, that marriage wasn’t a do-or-die thing, there was a limit to everything, and then it needed sacrifices and commitment to make it work, it was like a land you need to cultivate, weed, water, plant, harvest and then cultivate it, it was an endless circle and that was how marriage and relationships were.
"Yeah! Take time and don’t rush it, when you meet the one, you will know it immediately, it doesn’t matter what age or gender, you will know it the moment you meet that fateful person..." Su Wei Wei didn’t know much about attraction but deep down knew this was her fated man, the only man who could treat her right.