Chapter 391: Third Brother’s Eyes Are High
"Sister, Brother-in-law, and Mother are all incredibly generous. We shouldn’t be petty," remarked one of the daughters-in-law, echoing the sentiments of the others.
Mrs. Yang looked upon the daughters-in-law of her eldest and second sons with satisfaction. "As long as you’re comfortable with it, then it’s settled. The betrothal gifts for the third and fourth sons will be even more generous than yours."
Qin Dalong nodded in agreement. "Mother, that’s absolutely the right approach."
In ancient times, the compatibility of families was a significant consideration. When their own family was financially modest, so were their potential in-laws. The size of the dowry often hinged on the generosity of the betrothal gifts. However, their family’s newfound prosperity had elevated their social status. For instance, Chen Youwei’s family possessed a house and a shop in the prefectural city. He also served as the governor’s advisor, earning a salary from the imperial court. Though not extravagantly wealthy, they were considered affluent in the city. His daughter, Chen Shanshan, was a well-mannered and cultured young lady, significantly different from a rural, uneducated girl. Naturally, her dowry would surpass that of ordinary families, resulting in more generous betrothal gifts.
Mrs. Yang was confident that her sons understood this societal hierarchy, yet she shared these details primarily to ensure that their wives felt comfortable with the arrangements. Her maternal consideration and thoughtfulness were well-known among her family, which also contributed to the strong bond between her and her daughters-in-law.
Relieved by the understanding of her sons and daughters-in-law, Ms. Yang turned her attention to Qin Sanlong. "Third, since Fourth is already engaged, it’s time for you to expedite your own marriage. Don’t be overly selective."
